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We're back, baby! And we're talking money on the first episode of season three. We'll share what we learned as children, how we spend money today and what we hope to teach our kids about finances.

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Jess & Mary share the story of their friendship, and their hopes for the new version of Not Terrible. Enjoy this short "get to know you" teaser before the season officially drops.

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Jess attempts to share her Uncle John's mental health story. But, as so many conversations go when these two get together, all subjects are open at all times. Not too be missed.

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